I guess, the older you get
the more likely that from time to time, you are going to have to turn to
medical care. Oh, geeze, how I dread
that prospect.
I’ve already shared how
much I hate emergency rooms. That came
about during the 6 years that my brother spent his final years living with
us. During those years Jim went to the
Emergency Room 3-4 times per year. At
first it was a relatively new experience for me, so I approached the times with
an open, accepting attitude.
About the 3rd
year my attitude started to shift. After
many experiences of sitting in the waiting room/exam room 5-6, 7 and sometimes
8 hours with literally nothing happening I had lost all my patience. On our final visit to the ER, the doctor
screamed at us “This is not an emergency!”
Maybe not for him, but it was for Jim.
I asked the doc how long this would be, he said probably 5 hours. I looked at him and said, “Call me when he’s
ready to be picked up.” and left. They admitted Jim for a week-long stay.
Let’s move ahead to
current time. On Saturday evening,
October 11, I was really, really sick. I
couldn’t stop throwing up! I couldn’t
stop shivering. I was completely and
totally miserable. Sickness continued through
Sunday, calmed down a bit by Monday. Had
a doc appointment on Tuesday. She
thought I might have Hep A, as I was very jaundiced. Blood tests said “NO”. Ultrasound showed that my gallbladder was
filled with gall stones. Evidently the
sickness was brought on by my body passing a gall stone.
I made the decision
immediately that the gallbladder had to go.
Was not going to go through that again.
The surgeon was out of town for a week.
Saw him when he returned, scheduled surgery and waited it out.
Now here’s where the story
really begins. The surgeon informed us
that it would be a 5 hour, out-patient procedure and answered all of mine and
Pete’s questions. Surgery took place on
Nov. 13. Surgery went well, recovery….not
so much.
Turns out that my body
really did not like the anesthetic. The
major issue was that my oxygen absorption rate was very low. Doc did not want to release me. So, after spending all day in the Recovery
Room, I was finally moved into a hospital room about 7 PM, Thursday night.
I felt fine. Just wanted a good night’s sleep and to go
home the next day. DID NOT HAPPEN. I’m not sure what was going on at the Nurses
Station that night, but several times throughout the night there was yelling,
screaming, laughing….it sounded like a serious party was going on. I couldn’t believe it. A ward full of sick people, in the middle of
the night, and there was absolutely no way to sleep.
The next day I asked about
my usual medications. My requests were
ignored. I asked at least 4 times during
the day. I knew my daily medications
were listed in my file, my comments were essentially ignored. I knew what would happen if I didn’t get
them.
I didn’t get released on
Friday, as my body was still trying to smother me. But that night, things got a little more
exciting. After dinner my heart started
racing. No big surprise, that happens
when you don’t get your Metoprolol.
Night nurse was a wack job. She
freaked and a stat EKG was ordered. I told
them that if I could have my meds, all would be well.
Finally, about 3 AM an intravenous
dose arrived. Immediately, my heart
calmed down.
Just to be clear, I am
writing the highlights of my hospital stay…..there was so much more, but I can’t
spend the day here at the computer.
Let me just say, I was not
impressed with my care at the hospital.
I wrote a scathing review when the hospital survey arrived at my
laptop.
And this makes me
sad. Sad, because I know it could and
should be better. My Mom was a nurse and
spent her entire life caring for others.
She was an outstanding professional in her field. I know how patients should be cared for….what
I experienced was nowhere near even the low bar.
And guess what….now it’s
gonna get worse, since the federal government has decided that nursing is not a
profession!!! Geeze, it just gets dumber
and dumber!!!!